"Couple Goals" is the greatest illusion of 21st century," says IK Ogboona's wife

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IK Ogbonna’s beautiful wife, Sonia speaks about relationships in marriages and how she has been able to make her marriage work.

IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia Ogbonna thinks the idea of “Couple Goals” is the greatest illusion of 20th century.

Sonia Ogbonna made this known via her Instagram page on Friday, February 2, 2018, where she wrote a long epistle about relationships. She also posted a really seductive photo of herself and hubby, IK Ogbonna which will sure get fans talking.

The Colombian born mother of one talked about her relationship and struggles when she just got married to her husband. She also talked about how she was able to sustain her relationship by trying to be submissive to her husband ( a word she hated). She didn’t end it without thanking her husband for standing by her side.

“Couple Goals” is the greatest illusion of 21st century.U think someone’s life is perfect because of a nice picture on IG. Lol. My friends, my wisdom didn’t come from books. My write ups are result of many lessons I have learnt from my struggle,pain and frustration.However,I choose to keep it real because there is light in truth&we don’t have to feel like losers just because things don’t seem to be perfect all the time.Honestly, I have never liked the idea of marriage,I hated it cuz it seemed like a zone where we appreciate nothing and demand for everything just because.

Mrs Sonia Ogbonna
(Instagram/Sonialareinaa)

“Even today I feel like the whole “marriage” thing is not there to serve us,but to serve society by impacting tones of norms that are meant to control us,lock us inside the box and decide what is wrong and right on our behalf.It took me time,tears,depression,endless arguments and literally madness to understand the purpose of two people coexisting together. But it clicked somehow,somewhere..UNION. Just two people and their own world. I do love the idea of deep,HONEST friendship that forgives imperfections and helps us grow and become better.But Im also aware that that’s something we gradually need to learn how to apply in real life.

IK Ogbonna,Sonia Morales
(Instagram)

“At times we all forget to count blessings for a moment or two. We become greedy ,we seek for flows ,we forget to appreciate. We demand love but we don’t ask ourselves if we are giving it out as well. Many times I forgot to give credit to this man of mine for everything that he is.Do you know how difficult I am to handle?Strong minded woman with revolution on her mind 24/7. Lol. Average man’s pride can’t deal with me. Ever. I made many mistakes but the biggest one is not appreciating u every moment of my day.

IK Ogbonna and his wife, Sonia Morales.
(Pinterest)

“Thank you for babysitting me from the time I was barely 23 I know its not easy dealing with a savage like me that doesn’t like being tamed/”submissive” (I hate that bloody word) And freedom u gave me is the highest proof of love u have for me.Nothing is perfect about us, but at the end of the day we always remember to go back on the right track whenever we get lost. I love you Boss,” she wrote.

IK Ogbonna and his wife, Sonia arent just one cute couple but sometimes they say a lot of controversial stuff. Remember when IK Ogbonna said cheating really has nothing to do with sex but the devotion of your time and attention to someone who is not your spouse? Yes he said so while granting n interview on Broadway TV, even explaining it further

Sonia and Ik Ogbonna for Ghoste magazine
(Ghoste magazine)

“Cheating is not even having sex with a woman. That’s one mistake people make. Cheating is when you find yourself developing feelings for someone,” he said.

IK Ogbonna got married to Sonia Morales on June 29, 2015, and the couple is blessed with a child.