Be a wife material not a ‘Slay mama’
A ‘Slay mama’ is a word that is now commonly used on social media for women who are so good looking to the extent of killing or stabbing someone’s heart.
So many negative attributes are attached to being a ‘slay mama’ which is why you must be a wife material and not a ‘slay mama’.
According to Urban dictionary, a ‘slay mama’ is someone who is so good looking it stabs someone’s heart or slay their eyes. From this definition, it is noticeable that a slay mama is a killer and everything about her can only be seen with the eyes.
On the other hand, a wife material is a woman that is distinct and is noticed by men to be a potential home builder and maker. A wife material is totally different from a slay mama in all areas.
Before you agree to be a slay mama, why don’t you look at the differences between a slay mama and a wife material:
Differences between a Wife material and a Slay mama
- A slay mama is attractive physically; A wife material is attractive through her good characters.
- A slay mama is only good outward; A wife material is good in and out.
- A slay mama cannot build a home; A wife material is a potential home builder.
- A slay mama cannot manage finance as she spends more on her body to look killing; A wife material knows how to manage finance as she spends less on her body but spends more time building up herself to be a better wife.
- A slay mama is mostly used and dumped by men; A wife material is valued as men prefer to marry them.
- A slay mama is a sex material; A wife material is meant for marriage.
- A slay mama attracts men of her kind that don’t care about the future; A wife material attracts men of her kind also that are serious minded and is concerned about marriage.
- A slay mama is not prepared for marriage; A wife material gets herself prepared for marriage.
- A slay mama is a killer of hopes and dreams of men as the name implies; A wife material help to build her man to achieve his dreams and aspirations.
From the above points, it is clear that every woman should run away from being a Slay mama but should be a wife material. This is because a wife material does not only add value to her man but to the entire world as she is capable of raising godly and well-trained children.
This is because a wife material does not only add value to her man but to the entire world as she is capable of raising godly and well-trained children.
Source: Daily FamilyWhy Most Slay Queens Never Get Married
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